Modern men are bombarded by advertising on television and magazines where manly, Hollywood stars have been paid to advertise a fragrance or an outfit. In a world where men’s clothes and fragrances are mostly designed by gay men (who would like to see regular men dressed exactly like themselves), it has become increasingly difficult for heterosexual men to work out what they should be wearing.Ĭlothes have become more and more effeminate in design and in color, and these days you are more likely to see pinks and mauves in men’s fashions with puffy lace cuffs and man bags something that was unheard of several years ago.įragrances have also taken on a more neutral, androgynous tone and are suitable for both men and women which leaves you smelling, for example, like a lotus flower…not the manliest scent around. Yet, what many straight guys don’t realize is that the gay guys are simply trying to get heterosexual men to be more like them or to be more accepting of them. Often, the gay guys will have a hot woman on the show saying, “Yeah, I hate it when guys wear plain black socks with black shoes…it’s so boring” or something pointless like that. They are so serious when they say it, so it can seem like they actually know what they’re talking about.
Gay TV show presenters say things like, “Every guy NEEDS to have 10 pairs of shoes” and “You HAVE TO wear patterned socks with black shoes and a matching belt.” Maybe it was before your time, but when Queer Eye For the Straight Guy came out, it confused the crap out of straight guys all over the world. Don’t Listen to the Advice of Gay Guys on TV Talk like a man, not like a feminine guy who is trying to be liked. You don’t need to be macho or act tough, but simply have a more masculine vibe and attitude from now. The more masculine you think, behave and act around women, the more they will feel attracted to you. You’ve got to embrace the fact that you are a man, not a woman. Women are attracted to guys who are not afraid to be masculine. Instead, you will be the sweet, fun friend that they hang with, but never hook up with. While acting feminine will help you “get along” with girls, it won’t make them feel turned on by you and want to have a sexual relationship with you. He’ll say things like, “Oh my god…I just HAVE TO tell you something…” and talk to her like a girl would. Some guys (who don’t know what else to do to attract women or get women to like them) act a bit girly or feminine because they think it will help women get along with them better.įor example: A woman will say something about what a guy did and a guy who is acting feminine as a way of trying to get along with her will say, “Oh my god! No way! That’s like, soooo rude.”Īnother example is where a guy will gossip about things like a girl does. However, if you only want women, but everyone keeps thinking that you are gay, then you are probably making the mistake of acting feminine to be more likeable. There is nothing wrong with being gay if you actually are.